01/31/2010 NOT MISSING A SOUL
NOT MISSING A SOUL
3RD Sermon in the “Sent By God”
Series
“Do not neglect to
show hospitality to strangers, for by doing that some have entertained angels
without knowing it.”
Hebrews 13:2 (NRSV)
It makes sense to build on one’s
strength.
Two weeks ago, the first sermon in this series
acknowledged that we are a rather friendly congregation. Even with our hospitable nature, though, there’s
always room to improve. Last week’s
sermon, then, presented the message that hospitality is not just for visitors
in worship, but is to be extended to everyone we meet. Hospitality is not some church program to do,
but a way of being for the Christian, a ministry in which we’re all engaged. As the great saint renowned for his
hospitality, (
Today, I want to help us stretch our
hearts by considering how we welcome certain strangers, the “strange stranger,”
if you will. I’ve asked our Signing Choir
to help us.
[Signing Choir
& “If We Are the Body,” by Casting Crowns.]
Greeting that young family of five is easy. The children’s faces are so bright, plus we can direct that littlest one to the nursery. We know how to do that. The senior couple dressed so well is easy to make conversation with, too. Even the single person, regardless of age, sex, or race, who has such a nice singing voice, is easy to acknowledge & make small talk with.
What about the person who seems withdrawn, who makes
only fleeting eye contact, whose head is bowed & not because it’s prayer
time, who doesn’t take the hymnal from the rack, or is unable to sing while silently
choking back tears, who sends the distinct non-verbal message that something is
wrong, something is different, yet despite everything, is here…in church…at
worship…among Christians? What do we do when the stranger among us is “stranger
than most?”
Many of us have been in churches smaller than this
one. In a small sanctuary with less than
100 worshipers, the congregation counts on the pastor to spot & care for visitors. Many long-time members here remember such a
setting at our old
I confess, when Dot Kuschel sat down during last
week’s first hymn & took on an ashen complexion, I didn’t see it. I learned about the situation a few minutes
later. Or, when Gordon McPherson wasn’t
feeling well while singing in the choir before Christmas, there was a nurse right
in the chancel with him who didn’t see Gordon sink back into his chair. It was nurses in the pews who cared for him
before that nurse only a few yards away.
This is a large sanctuary with a lot going on during
worship & we miss some important happenings like those, don’t we (the
sermon which puts our eyes closed, notwithstanding!)? Imagine, then, how easily we can miss the
stranger, especially the stranger who is doing his or her best to go unnoticed,
but genuinely needs someone to notice.
Their receiving a smile & kind word, not a smothering by a group of
us (!), may be as crucial to their spirits & emotions, as the two seniors
who required physical, medical attention.
Finding a nurse in the pew or dialing 911 is a lot
easier for many persons, than ministering to the stranger who is acting oddly
or seems a bit out of sorts. We
recognize that in this body of Christ there exist a variety of gifts, not just
nurses & doctors & emergency medical personnel, but teachers,
principals, social workers, counselors, psychologists, salespersons, &
others with abilities to deal with persons who appear to have some need, beyond
what is normally expected of the average visitor. If your handshake & warm greeting are not
met with the usual response, or you sense something is awry, discreetly tell an
usher or someone nearby who can provide the kind of ministry that may be
needed.
Let me make an additional confession. When individuals present themselves to me
& specifically ask for help or to be counseled, I’m “good to go.” Relying on me to always perceive emotional
needs & cues is not my gift. And the
busier I am, the worse I am at spotting such things. Some of you know that, & still love me. I need to rely on many of you to be my eyes
& ears. I don’t know if I would be
as blind as the priest & Levite in our gospel lesson, but it would probably
take a situation as dramatic as that one to get my attention.
Imagine, though, being a person in some distressed state
of need – maybe lonely, or depressed, facing bankruptcy, just had a cancer
diagnosis, had a loved one die, were hurt & rejected by another
congregation, or you name it. You come
to church expecting something – an uplifting hymn, comforting words in the
sermon, a prayer to help, a kind, caring individual. Your expectation may be reasonable or it may
be totally unrealistic. It doesn’t
matter. You’ve chosen to give
Then, imagine the pastor (Luke calls him the priest)
& other religious persons in church (the Levites) not responding to you. Talk about adding insult to injury! You’re feeling bad enough. It’s the story of the Good Samaritan, but
happening right here, not along some lonely
The three strangers from our lesson about Abraham
& Sarah in the first sermon turned out to be angels (Genesis 18). Today’s
lesson from Hebrews reminds us that when we are welcoming to strangers, despite
being unaware of their identity, we may be entertaining angels, too.
Well, angels or not, let’s treat individuals as
though they were Jesus. That’s not my
idea. That’s from Jesus’ own lips. He said that when we care for others,
particularly persons in need, we are caring for him (Matt. 25:40). That
puts things into context, doesn’t it?
This morning’s concluding video segment is about
Richard Kimbro. He was a convicted felon
& addict on his way to buy bootlegged whiskey one Sunday morning. En route, he felt strangely drawn into
As our signing choir made clear: If we’re not the body of Christ, who is? We
have something great to offer here – Jesus Christ & ourselves. Our hospitality, the love of Christ flowing from
our hearts to others’, transforms lives.
The stakes really are that high!
And we don’t want to miss a soul!
[Watch video clip.[2]]
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